
An avalanche that looms above our heads but we don't believe it
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Friday, January 24, 2014
many times the reason why we withdraw from someone is because we are afraid of being rejected/losing. not due to the fact that you're tired of that person. rather, you get so obsessed that you're afraid of losing it someday because deep down you clearly know that it is not meant to be forever.
some will fall head over heels and go deeper while there will be the ones who would rather give up halfway because it's a bottomless pit with no happy ending. 'shallow people', the ones who are falling head over heels would say about the latter. but little did they know that the ones who gave up were once the ones who fell deep, giving their everything in hope that things will be different. so now whose the shallow ones? some may get so used to having that someone they hold so close that it became their significant half. yet, the fear of losing is there. is it the lack in faith, trust, confidence? it varies among people. what happens if you lose someone so important? break down. that's a definite answer. so instead of going through the heartache, why not withdraw from it before it gets deeper? why the need to go through so much knowing that it will not be forever? but some are brave enough to step out of their comfort zone and with disregards to what may hold in the future, they dare to love now and worry later. for you will not know what will happen. that may be their last day. now ask yourself, should you know that it's your last day, will you make the same decision to withdraw from someone just to save yourself the heartache, or will you make use of that day to love someone wholly?
- Jiahui
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@ 7:29 AM
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