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Saturday, March 17, 2012


The only way to avoid a stupid, or a heated anger, or disappointment at a person, is, no matter how angry or disappointed you are, don't show it out and make the person you are angry at feel guilty or scared or maybe sad. Make them feel okay. Then, the results would not be that awkward.

Why? Because many a times, the people you are angry or disappointed at are the people you love and care. So why because of a rash mistake, make the whole situation so awkward? We can actually do it the other way. By comforting the person, and making sure that he/she is not to be blamed (Even if sometimes you feel like yelling at him/her).

You may be wondering, why do this? Why should I when he/she is actually in fault? Why must I always give in? Don't worry. There is a reason why you should do this. Afterall, he/she is someone you care, right? This way, even when you are angry, after some straightening out or trashing things out with another friend, or on somewhere, an online platform that the other party does not know, things are actually not that bad afterall.

By then, when you are really okay, the other party might not. So how to end this stupid thing? Right? Only applies to 'Stupid, rash anger at something pointless, or disappointment'. Think about it.

@ 12:45 AM